living now

I'm listening to Oprah and being reminded of an important life lesson that I learned quite early in my own life. It's something you hear all the time... live in the present, be present, don't worry about the future, etc.

I was fortunate enough to have the great experience to work in an inpatient hospice facility early in my career. Of course, I met many people who had lived long, full lives. But I also met many people whose lives were full, but short. The image of one patient has forever been etched in my memory.

She was a young woman, in her early 30s. She had a daughter, probably 6 or 7 years old, and an infant, less than a year old. She had brain cancer and the front quarter of her skull was gone, almost as if it had caved in. The kids came to visit in the evenings, but I will always remember that Sunday afternoon when her brother came to visit. She sat in the recliner at the end of a long hallway which opened up onto a garden. It was autumn and the warm golden sunshine filtered in through the big windows. And he played the guitar and sang to her. And the next weekend she was gone.

It's a memory that I reflect on from time to time... a powerful reminder to me of how anything can happen to anyone at any time. I know that when I live with intention, in the present, I feel much different. I'm glad to be reminded today.